A loss case of humanity

I do not think I would ever understand that moment when someone makes a decision to turn off their humanity switch. How they would “commit” to an agreement or promise and then break it without a single care in the world. And in not keeping their word, they wouldn’t even feel bothered by how it will affect you and the huge inconvenience that it will cost to your life. It’s like they decide that being horrible is what they are going to do and they do not have a care in the world on how badly it will affect you.

My question is, do people feel guilty at all when they are as mean as the devil to the next person? Or am I too much of a good person that when I do even the littlest of bad act, its eats me up inside till I make the means to make it right
with that particular person?

I know I shouldn’t be too sensitive or this surprised. I mean people do the worst of things to each other every day, they kill, rape, steal, hate crimes etc and here I am being concerned on a mere broken verbal agreement.

I would like to think that when someone decides they would be nasty to you and in the act of doing that, they start justifying it in their minds by convincing themselves that it’s okay to act that way or use those words even though they are fully aware of how it will affect you. This becomes a repetition in their lives till such time that they fully believe and are a 100% convinced that it’s okay to be that way. Their guilty-conscience just stops putting up with them, packs its bags and leaves.

It is sad that a majority continue losing their humanity and are just walking shells in human form. I guess I have to agree with Martin Adams when he said “There is no hope for humanity, because we cannot change the world. But there is always hope for us because we can change ourselves.

One thing I’ve realized in this recent event and all the other bits that have happened in the past, is that I would never be able to stop myself from seeing good in other people or giving them the benefit of the doubt, till offcourse they prove me wrong. I guess maybe the fear of being a horrible person is the one thing that drives me to continue being good to others.

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Be the best of YOU

Sometimes we just need to stop what we are doing, thinking and feeling and just detox.

Let go of things that don’t matter. Ill feelings caused by things around us. Bitterness caused by experiences of others.

Being too judgmental. Putting too much attention to things we actually care less about.

Thinking over and over about what went wrong instead of lesson behind that awful mistake.

Let go of those who do not belong in our space. Embrace what we love the most and the people who are worth keeping in our lives.

Love, love and love. Smile more, laugh harder and exercise a bit.

Switch off the telly. Turn off that constant buzzing text messages. Switch off the negative noise that’s around you.

Think happier thoughts. Make it your daily challenge to show more love to yourself- you’re the only YOU in the world afterall.

Be thankful of little things. Creative more blissful experiences. Some people think they need to wait till they have more money, more of this or that before they can actually enjoy life while in actual fact to enjoy life one must simply create the best of little moments.

Design your life the best way that you possible can. Live. Cry. Dance. Be kind. Get a beauty sleep. Jump. Laugh till your tummy hurts. Take a walk. Open your eyes more to opportunities and beauty that’s around you.

Express yourself and just be the best version of YOU.

Love is a bright idea
Love is a brilliant plan
I built my life around a bright idea
I built my life around the love that I’ve found” – Mother Mother, Bright Idea